1. Give it up for your Wings of Voice Top 50
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3. Amazing grace
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4. How sweet the sound
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5. That saved a wretch
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10. Amazing grace
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14. Any wretch, he'll catch you, save you
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15. What a sensation
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16. - Man, it's amazing
- Grace!
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17. Amazing grace...
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18. Wings of Voice no longer had
much of a purpose to me.
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19. But I had an obligation to these singers
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21. It won't be all celebration today
for our talented singers.
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will be going home tonight.
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23. But I was finding it hard
to stay focused on the competition
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about these pilots.
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27. Quin.
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29. It was sort of shocking to discover
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is going through emotionally,
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in conversation.
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37. - Twenty-seven. Yeah.
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- Yeah, yeah.
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- Did you guys live together?
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- Oh, wow.
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in my room, just...
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- Yeah.
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in case the FAA is watching.
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- You don't know?
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- No.
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who flies for an air cargo company.
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he was very short on words.
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Where you're not able to like—
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It's definitely a common thing.
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- You're good.
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- Nope. Doesn't really work out.
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That's a tough time to—
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one of our operators.
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- Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.
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- Oh, yeah.
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that one shot and you just do it.
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- Yeah, I don't know.
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a healthy relationship
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to understand each other?
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to be someone you're not,
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or cooler than you are.
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- I've tried that.
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- I fell right on my face.
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- Yep. Yep.
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104. "Hey, do you have any travel tips
for Greenland and Iceland?"
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- Yeah.
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what you'd be wearing today.
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- To send photos.
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working on called The Pack.
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- And so I think
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116. it may have the potential to, like,
help change human behavior.
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will hunt in packs...
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- Colin.
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- Wanna get a coffee?
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feel less scary.
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with an actress,
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instead of just one.
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- It's normal.
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- It's much easier to do.
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just go without it for a day,
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with a stranger
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the best version of yourself
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- Yeah.
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- Yeah, thank you. You, too.
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- Yeah, you, too.
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I'll see you later."
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- Great.
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- So after Colin left,
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- He's kind of cute.
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One, two, three here. Okay.
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go do a lot of adventures
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- He's smart.
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- I know, and I like—
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- Einstein, yes.
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- Yeah, and I read his story
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when he was really young.
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- No.
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just when you have a...
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- A wet dream, but you know—
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I was wide awake when I had it.
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- I was wide awake.
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- Is that a wet dream?
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- But it wasn't really a—
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- ... but I was wet.
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- His biography.
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Einstein is one of a kind.
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- Let the games begin.
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- Yeah, I bet.
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- Yeah. I went to high school
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of Huntsville.
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- I was going to go to Ireland,
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of my bartender friends said,
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Oktoberfest is happening!"
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- "Go there!" Oh, my God.
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like, want to climb Kilimanjaro.
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but yeah. Definitely Seoul.
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- You gotta go there.
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- Yes, top of the list.
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from one of the actresses, Emma.
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- So we might try and bounce ideas
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over a cup of coffee or something.
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- Good.
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- Little of both?
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let the games begin, I guess.
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but I don't know where.
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- I would say so.
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- I'm not— Trust me, I'm not—
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Collin is just such a sweet guy.
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- So I would hate if anyone had...
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the best intentions
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and I— because I literally...
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have truly bonded yet.
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- Indianapolis.
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to who you are as individuals.
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live out there, too?
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and my family right now.
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- Wha— Irish folk music?
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- Yeah.
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that was weeks in the making,
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to give Colin's new relationship
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and the one that looks like—
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of Colin's studio apartment
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of him and Emma inside of it,
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every possible challenge
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a sneak peek at his own life.
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sometimes when I fly.
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- Yeah.
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- Do you see...
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and that would tell me
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- I think it's been going good.
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and he wasn't taking the hint.
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- Yeah, like, "the eye."
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- What is that?
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- I don't know, I tried to get him
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I've tried it before and it worked.
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- Oh, really?
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show me what you did?
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- Hopefully they get the hint.
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- Yeah, yeah.
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- Let me see it again.
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- I get it.
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- All right, cool.
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- Okay. Thanks, yeah.
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- Good?
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- So, if it was, it was very subtle.
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- It's sort of hard to tell.
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- ...'cause these things are hard
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421. - Oh, I was looking that way.
- Oh, okay.
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422. - I thought you looked over at me.
- I was kind of glancing.
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423. Like kind of scanning the entire thing.
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424. Yeah. Didn't know
if you were looking at my face.
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425. - Wow.
- Welcome.
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426. This is a really nice place.
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427. - Yeah.
- I like it.
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- That is a...
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429. like a ceremonial spear from Tanzania.
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431. is that it can make a co-pilot feel
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432. like his struggles
are everyone's struggles
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433. and that you're not alone
in taking on personal challenges.
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435. That's a good question.
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436. I've got the fish tank over there
if you want to learn about fish.
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- Yeah, I—
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438. It looks like those two
were kissing for a second.
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439. Yeah, they definitely—
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440. They tend to pair up
and then do their own thing.
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441. - Kind of funny sometimes.
- Yeah.
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442. But I was starting to notice
that the Pack had limitations.
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443. How's everything going with Colin?
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444. I think, yeah, good.
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445. - Good?
- Yeah, yeah!
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446. Like, he'd tell me about his flying thing.
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447. I'd kind of, like, do a joke or something.
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448. And at least he laughed.
Like, I wasn't just, you know...
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449. It went good.
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450. Has he kissed you yet?
Tried to kiss you?
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451. - No.
- Oh, okay.
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453. Yeah. I mean, yeah.
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454. Oh, okay. Sure. Nice.
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455. But, like, maybe it's my—
I'm not giving out the right signals.
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456. - You think that's it?
- No, I don't know.
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457. Like, how do you, like...
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458. - How would I signal to him?
- What signals do you give?
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459. Like, it's just in the eyes.
Like, you give signals that way.
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460. - You're looking at his eyes?
- Yeah.
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461. I did it multiple times.
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462. Like, "Are you gonna kiss me or what?"
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463. Whatever Colin practiced with his Pack
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464. didn't seem to be changing
his real-world behavior.
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465. But we worked really hard
on this kiss thing.
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467. - Yeah.
- That's cool.
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- Yep.
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469. Well, I mean...
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470. So when I found out where Colin's
next date was with Emma,
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471. I was sure to be watching from afar.
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472. - Yes!
- From what I could see,
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473. that high-five was the only
physical contact they had
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474. while they were playing.
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475. A little more power there, bud.
A little more.
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476. That's my line.
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477. But I knew that the classic moment
for a kiss
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478. is when you say goodbye.
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479. I can do the concertina,
which is using every single finger...
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480. - Yeah, yeah.
- ... including the pinkies,
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481. which are useless,
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482. - but can't do string.
- No?
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483. Well, the— I mean, guitar is not too bad.
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484. That's like the only one.
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485. But like I could not do cello. Violin?
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486. - That— No. That's too hard.
- Yeah.
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487. If it has frets, you know where to go.
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488. Yeah, at least
you can play around with it,
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489. but that's like you gotta do, like...
There's such a little window.
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490. - Yeah.
- So, I don't know.
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491. Yeah.
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492. - Is that you? Is that your ride?
- No.
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494. Yep, there's your Uber. Oh, my God.
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495. - Yeah.
- Yeah.
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496. Very pretty night.
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497. - Well, it was very nice seeing you.
- Yeah, it was nice seeing you, too.
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498. - Thank you, it was fun.
- Yeah.
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499. - Drive safe.
- You too.
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500. - And, yeah.
- I'll see you soon.
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501. See you soon.
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502. Maybe a man's Pack
can only get him so far.
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503. I can wear my pilot outfit
and be your butler.
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504. - Nice.
- And you can have a bell.
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505. Some of these fake relationships
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506. were so far ahead
of the real Colin and Emma,
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509. to become intimate intrigued me.
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to not participate
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512. if they felt they had
a conflict of interest.
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in a relationship or anything
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515. and you would want to opt out of this
because of that.
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- Oh, no—
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- You're not?
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519. - I am. Yeah.
- Oh, you are?
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520. - Okay, is that okay?
- No, but this is—
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521. - Yeah, totally fine. Yeah.
- Okay.
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522. But one of the actresses
said something I couldn't shake.
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523. When I'm like approaching,
like, a love scene,
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527. It's real for you when you're doing it?
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528. Yeah, like it's happening
while it's happening.
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529. - But it's not "real" real.
- Does that make sense? Yeah.
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530. - Like the emotions feel real.
- Yeah.
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531. It feels like it's— I'm like,
"Oh, I really, like...
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532. I feel this way
about this person right now."
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533. - Like feel love?
- Yeah.
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534. And your boyfriend's
like cool with all that?
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535. - Yeah.
- Okay.
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536. - It's good that he understands.
- Yeah.
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537. He would get fired otherwise.
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538. This was confusing to me.
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539. I recently acted in a dramatic series
that aired on Paramount Plus,
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540. a network with some
questionable viewpoints.
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541. In the show,
I had to act as a husband
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542. who was deeply in love with his wife.
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543. - I'm so happy.
- You are.
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the expressions of a man in love,
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for the actress playing my wife.
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just copying the expressions
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that I had seen on TV and movies.
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can be feeling real love
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555. So what did they say they wanted to do?
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556. Well, they said that
they've already kissed a lot,
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558. Like, physically, they seem like
they're really... comfortable.
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561. - Yeah.
- Yeah.
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563. Oh, no, but I'm just saying, like...
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565. It's weird, isn't it?
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566. But it's one of those things
that like actors get to do.
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567. I know.
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568. Because this wasn't
a traditional acting role,
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to maintain full transparency,
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570. I encouraged the actors to invite
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572. to come observe everything
we were doing.
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573. - She's pretty talented, huh?
- Yeah. Look at her go.
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575. A year and a half.
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576. - Oh, nice.
- Yeah.
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577. But we've known each other
for longer than that.
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578. - Oh, really?
- Yeah.
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579. You cool with all this?
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580. She's an actress.
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581. I was realizing there's
this magical thing that happens
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584. could you ask them how far
they'd be comfortable going
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587. like, in terms of—
'cause you're the director, like...
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588. What is the story that you want
to tell through the intimacy?
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589. I'd like to leave it up to them...
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- Okay. Okay.
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591. Take it off.
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592. I mean, it's not like
my favorite thing to see
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with another man.
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595. It feels like... I'm watching
the character she's created.
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596. Like, she's assumed a character,
and I assume so has he.
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597. So, it's...
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598. It's in a weird way
like removed from themselves.
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599. It was like the concept of acting itself
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600. disarmed everyone in its presence.
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601. - Oh, hi!
- How's it going?
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602. And the actor gets a free pass
for virtually any behavior.
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to getting co-pilots and captains
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that you might not know everything.
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that every pilot already has,
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give pilots a loophole
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614. No, I haven't.
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615. Is it something you'd be interested
in giving a try?
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is named Captain Powers
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619. - in this, okay?
- All right.
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620. - A little funny, right?
- Yeah.
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621. And he's called that
because he actually has a power,
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and then doing it. Okay?
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624. And the other character
is named Jennifer Kissme.
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625. And Jennifer will be played by Emma.
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626. - Okay.
- Okay.
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627. - Who's an actress, as you know.
- Yeah.
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628. All right. Well, let me go get
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632. what you're doing now,
and where you're going.
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633. Okay, I'm inviting this person
back to my apartment.
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634. Like, how do you feel about me
as the character?
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635. - Like, think about that.
- Yep.
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636. It's not that bad.
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637. It's literally like, it's nothing, dude.
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638. It's... It's— I could not fly a plane.
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639. You can act. Like, anybody can...
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640. - You're just being yourself. So...
- Okay.
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641. Wow. Yeah, it's really nice.
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642. - Thank you.
- Yeah.
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643. A little bit cluttered, but...
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644. - Really good picture.
- Yeah, that was about 9,000 feet
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645. descending into Indianapolis.
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647. - That was just an iPhone.
- Can I sit down?
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648. - Oh yeah, of course.
- Yeah?
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649. Yeah, that's really cool.
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650. Yeah, I don't know
where I got the eye for photography
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651. 'cause neither of my parents
are good at it.
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652. - Really?
- Yeah.
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653. And then I can use the tipper here and...
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654. They are very well known
for their red wines.
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655. - Okay.
- Like the Malbecs.
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656. Well, what's the best one,
have you noticed?
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657. I think overall my favorites
are from Portugal.
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658. - Yeah?
- For such a small country,
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659. they've got a pretty wide variety
of climates to grow.
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660. So you get subtle differences
depending on where you get it.
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661. If you get it from the north side
or from the south side.
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662. - Yeah.
- Yeah.
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665. - Yeah.
- Yeah.
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666. I don't know.
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667. You don't know?
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668. We could open up one of
those bottles of wine, if you like.
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669. Sure.
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670. Maybe we all need
an excuse to be our true selves,
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671. and we're just looking for permission.
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672. I'm trying to be like, "Portugal,"
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673. - or like, "Yeah, yeah."
- No.
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674. Yeah, it's good.
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675. - Yeah?
- Yeah.
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677. It was hard to know
the meaning of a single kiss
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678. on someone's cheek.
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679. But if this allowed a co-pilot to act
on how they really feel,
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681. You actually did really good.
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682. - I didn't think— I mean, I was—
- Thank you.
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683. Yeah, that tip you gave me
about figuring out where—
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684. like, where we came from
rather than just, you show up...
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685. - Yeah.
- ... was very helpful.
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686. Oh, wow.
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687. So HBO is paying for all this,
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688. and they basically gave me,
you know, a blank check
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689. as long as I don't go over budget.
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690. Wow.
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691. Yeah, the only requirement is that...
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692. everything I'm doing
related to aviation safety
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693. has to be
somewhat entertaining, I guess.
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694. Right. That's what sells.
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695. - You recognize this?
- Yeah, I do.
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696. I knew that the only place
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in aviation is through Congress.
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698. That's what former NTSB member
John Goglia told me.
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699. And he said
that if I ever had a solution
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I've been exploring,
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to get it on the radar
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702. of lawmakers in Washington, D.C.
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703. This is some footage I've captured.
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705. They're not saying
a single word to each other.
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706. Right. I see it all over.
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707. - You see it?
- Yeah.
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all these pilots—
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or in different situations,
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713. Yep, I see that, too.
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- Yes.
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715. So, I'm thinking it's less about,
you know, this critical moment
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to take over the controls
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718. and more about trying
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- Does that make sense?
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on that part of it. The—
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have been focused in the cockpit,
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outside the cockpit.
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726. And I think there's some low-hanging fruit
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728. Why am I the only one talking about this?
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729. I don't think the airlines
are focused in on it.
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730. Congress can be motivated,
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to drive change.
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732. But I think you're onto something.
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733. Sorry, give me one sec here.
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734. Chairs don't move that easily, I guess.
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735. Amazing grace!
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736. How sweet the sound
That saved a wretch like me!
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737. Amazing grace!
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738. I once was lost but now I'm found
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739. Was blind but now I see
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740. Amazing grace!
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741. I once was lost
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742. But now I'm found
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743. Was blind but now I see
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744. Amazing grace
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745. How sweet the sound
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746. That saved a wretch like me
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