1. - I have a question about our wedding.
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3. Very involved.
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5. I do wanna make some decisions on,
like, you know,
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6. just flowers and food and cake.
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on our wedding?" What—
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9. - "I welcome your opinions."
- Yeah, our, hers, theirs.
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10. You know, this is like every girl's dream.
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11. So, it's like, you gotta,
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12. You can't be the main. I'm sorry.
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13. Just for this.
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15. - Nah. All right, middle name.
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16. No!
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17. Okay, the boy.
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18. - Deal.
- Love that.
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19. Oh, my gosh! This is so cool!
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22. - Hey, guys. How's it going?
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23. I'm doing great. I'm Hailey.
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24. And I'm here
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25. - Shut up! Oh my God, I'm so excited.
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26. - So, yeah. We'll set up over here.
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31. I kind of forgot about the flower thing,
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34. - Have you tried pressing flowers?
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35. - That's what we're doing?
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36. You can take a sentimental
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those memories forever.
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39. The tweezers are there
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40. - Cool. What's this for?
- That would be for gluing.
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42. Ooh! This one's pretty.
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43. I'm about to go overboard with this glue.
I know I am.
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45. I'm used to gluing, like, little models.
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46. When you say little models, I don't know
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47. - Do you?
- Little plastic models.
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48. - I actually do. I play D&D as well.
- You do?
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53. It's not a competition,
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54. - Which one, Hailey? Which one?
- I can't choose a favorite!
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55. - I like your color scheme better.
- Fuck!
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56. But I do like how you've balanced
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57. I feel like you voted for his.
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58. I'm used to winning
the participation trophy in a lot of…
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59. Your participation trophy
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60. - Yes, it is.
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61. - I love it.
- Thank you so much.
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62. - Yeah, this has been awesome. So cool.
- It's been awesome.
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66. - So cool. Yours looks so good.
- Yeah? Thank you.
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69. But I'm sure there are people
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70. "If I do this, I'm gonna get laid. Cool."
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I mean, let's be honest.
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73. Did I tell you? This morning,
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75. Great. Taylor's dad
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82. - He can't wait to meet you.
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83. Part of him is like,
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84. "It sounds like
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85. But the more important thing is,
like, "Do you love my daughter?"
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86. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
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87. My dad's also whispered to me
a couple times on the phone.
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88. He's been like, "How do you know
he's not a liar like your last boyfriend?"
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89. "How do you know this guy's not a liar?"
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91. How are you feeling?
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92. I am excited to prove to him
that this is genuine.
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93. I feel relaxed
for the first time in a while.
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94. I feel like this
is where I'm supposed to be right now.
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95. Cheersing to…
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96. A good date?
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97. A great date and these flowers
being in our new home forever.
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98. - I love you.
- 'Cause they're gonna last.
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99. Yum.
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100. Eww! No, just kidding.
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101. - You're nervous. I can tell.
I'm not nervous. More excited.
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102. You're gonna see a bunch of cute pictures.
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103. You're gonna see my baby cheeks.
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104. - They were so fat.
- Your parents.
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105. They're not here.
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106. - Welcome.
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107. Living with my parents could be seen
as a negative maybe to some people,
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108. but I told Hannah from the jump,
this is where I'm living now.
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109. Lots of pictures.
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110. Yeah.
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111. You know who that is, right?
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112. - Is that you?
- That's me.
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113. You were cute.
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114. - Told you I had fat cheeks.
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115. I was on that football journey
until a couple years ago,
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116. so it didn't really make sense for me
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117. to rent my own place
and pay rent while I'm gone.
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118. Who are these people?
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119. - That's my parents on their wedding day.
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120. Yep. My dad was a stud, right?
So was my mom.
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121. The fact that I have a really cool spot
where my parents are still at,
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122. they like the fact that I'm here.
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123. If you wanna, you know,
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124. I don't. I love my parents.
I love my space. So it's good with me.
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125. - All right, show me around, man.
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126. - You really are so Catholic.
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127. This is where my mom works,
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128. - Lawyer at work. She loves Jesus.
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129. Uh-huh.
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130. - Does she know I'm not religious?
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131. - Will she care, you think?
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132. As long as she sees good values in you,
that's all that matters.
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133. It's nice in here. So who cooks?
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134. - Or do you cook for your family?
- My mom usually cooks.
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135. But lately my parents have been like,
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136. - Interesting.
You wanna say hi to Peeka?
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137. Is she a scaredy-cat?
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138. Yeah, she's a scaredy-cat.
That's your new mommy.
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139. Hi, Peeka!
Is that your Peeka's food and water?
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140. Yeah.
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141. Are you feeding Peeka or is your dad?
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142. My dad
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143. - I can't get up that early for her.
- Nick, come on, you're 28!
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144. - My room is here.
- You lived in the basement?
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145. - This is my old room.
- This was your childhood room?
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146. Yeah. Check this out.
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147. - Have you read those books?
- I read all of them.
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- For school or whatever.
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149. I actually have a lot
of my clothes in here too.
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150. This was, like,
my letterman for my football.
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151. You know, I got, like,
a couple jerseys and stuff like that.
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152. And then look,
this is my height chart, and that's 11.
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153. That's the last time I did it.
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154. I haven't grown much since then.
That's cute, right?
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155. - When did you stop growing?
- Uh, probably like 21, 20.
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156. Now you ready
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157. - Oh, okay.
- Right in here.
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158. - Big boy's room.
- Yep, big boy's room.
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159. - Welcome to the dungeon.
- It's big.
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160. You don't wanna, check and see,
like, rummage through it?
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161. Oh, no, I have a feeling
your mom cleaned it before I got here.
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162. Nah, she didn't clean this space.
I cleaned it before I left.
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163. But I always keep it clean.
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164. But then, yeah, this is,
like, my little living room space.
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165. - That's where I do my work, over here.
- Got an office.
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166. When you need someone to call,
Nick Dorka, Rice Properties Group.
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167. - Keep it, all right?
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168. In case you need a realtor,
you know who to call.
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169. - I thought you were buying a house, Nick.
- I'm saying…
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170. Yeah.
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171. And this is Buffy.
This is my first stuffed animal.
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175. - There's a pool table in there.
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176. Yeah, but we just keep
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177. Nick, you were like,
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178. - Exactly.
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180. My dad and I though, we used
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181. - Oh, yeah?
- It wasn't this messy.
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183. - Yeah?
- The magic that doesn't happen.
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184. "Mom, Dad, shh!"
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185. "I'm bringing a girl home tonight."
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187. Like, I haven't had girlfriends
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188. You're the third person
who's ever kind of seen this space.
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189. But, um, I feel
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I was expecting, like, a man's den.
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196. I was expecting, like, the pool table
in the center and the liquor on the wall.
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198. - Nah, the liquor's upstairs.
- I wish you were handier.
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199. Should've picked
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200. Can't mount a TV.
Did you hang up that mirror?
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201. Yeah, I helped my dad hang that.
Yeah. It was two. I actually did.
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204. - Where'd you live before that? Upstairs?
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207. - Mm-hmm.
- Like, we'll probably move right in.
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208. I don't think
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209. You're gonna be moving in with me, right?
You're moving into my apartment.
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210. - You ready to move out?
- Fuck yeah.
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212. - Hi!
- Hello!
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216. - Let's do a cheers.
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218. - Cheers to Marissa and Ramses.
- Marissa and Rams.
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219. - God, nice to finally meet you.
- Future Prashads.
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220. Oh, my God. Future Prashads.
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- It's been so easy.
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It's not something I wanna take lightly.
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231. - I don't know if it was a challenge—
- It wasn't a challenge.
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234. It was, like, the first time
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235. "Your military service is amazing.
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237. If I were in the military,
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241. - I'm not going back in, but what if I did?
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251. - I love her.
- Just because of that, end everything.
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258. We're on a different moral plane
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259. - This was a part of her life.
- For sure.
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260. And it is… I mean, I was in as well.
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261. - Yeah.
- It's something to be proud of for us.
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262. Yeah.
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263. And everyone that we served with was,
that was a huge part of our life.
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265. - So, like, I'm just like…
- I understand all of this is very nuanced.
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268. if you had friends
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270. I trust your heart
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271. I'm gonna trust
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273. - I'm from Venezuela. Yeah.
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a very complicated history with the US.
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I always stand with people
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282. to, like, see myself in the future
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284. - …being involved in the military.
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290. Even with religion, we're going to
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292. - That's what I was about to say.
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294. If my child wants to go into the military,
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298. I'm gonna teach them I was
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299. like, that was part of my life.
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it was always, like, very aligned.
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with that." It happened to be him.
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We want the best for her.
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- Go ahead. Let out them tears.
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- I know.
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he's literally the only one…
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332. - You want me to talk to him aside?
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we're just gonna talk.
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335. "Hey, this is my man."
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336. "Have any questions?
We are living together right now."
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337. "We did, like, a crazy experiment.
Let me tell you about it."
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339. "We did an experiment
to basically find our match."
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340. "And now we're testing
to see if we can live together."
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341. - Da-da-da-da-da-da.
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343. - He cannot get up. We will get up.
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350. "When you meet my family,
are you gonna ask my dad?"
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351. "Will my dad find out?
Will my dad say yes?"
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352. That's why I have my ring off,
'cause I just want.
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356. So meeting them
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357. - I'll see you in there.
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with where this process is going.
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360. - Hey.
- Hey, hey, hey, hey.
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He's still grilling.
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- Do I have any choice?
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- That would be.
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382. He is someone that I am with,
I've chosen to be with.
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383. We've had endless conversations
about things,
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384. family, experiences,
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385. where we've come from,
what's important to us.
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386. I picked him. He picked me.
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387. We do live here together,
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388. but I also wanna make sure, like,
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with him as well,
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390. because if you guys don't like him,
then I can't see myself with him.
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391. He's coming in right now though.
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392. - Good afternoon, everybody.
- Hey!
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393. - Hi!
- Hi! How are you?
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394. - Excuse me. Let me put this down.
- Sure.
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395. - Ma'am, how are you?
- Good! How are you?
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396. - I'm well. How about yourself? Tim.
- Good.
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397. - Tim.
- Yeah, pleasure to meet you.
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398. - How are you? Good to meet you.
- Ian.
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399. - Hey, how are you? Evan.
- I'm good. Tim.
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400. - Sir.
- Tim, how are you?
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401. - Well. Really happy to meet you, sir.
- Nice to meet you.
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402. - Yes, sir. It's a pleasure.
- You wanna sit over here?
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403. Of course.
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404. - You wanna tell them about yourself?
- Sure.
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405. Yeah. So, I'm actually
from Georgia, Augusta.
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406. I worked in a lot of different
government jobs for a while.
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407. I currently consult
with a government agency.
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408. Prior to that, I was in the Navy.
I know I'm in a good place.
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409. So I start to look at what the next
32 years of my life are gonna look like.
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410. Okay.
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411. And so when you and Alex
were talking to each other,
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412. you two figured that you were
kind of on the same trajectory in life?
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413. Absolutely. So, like, one thing
we actually bonded over was family.
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414. When I'm thinking of a partner,
somebody I wanna build a life with,
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415. that's central,
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416. 'cause ultimately what you come from
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417. is gonna dictate a lot of what you create.
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418. And everything that she came from
seems so solid and pure.
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419. Family is really important
to all of us as well.
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420. No, it's interesting to see,
'cause she is y'all's big sister.
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421. I had two big sisters,
so I'm, like, a little brother.
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422. As the little brother,
you're like a menace to society.
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423. - It's like a switch.
- Yeah.
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424. Alex cares about us very deeply.
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425. - It's almost like a maternal instinct.
- Yeah, yeah.
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426. - I am—
- My kids.
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427. That's something we have to work through,
because I am so, like, "I got it."
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428. - Exactly.
- She's like, "No, let me get it!"
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429. - So we're always—
- "Make sure when you…"
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430. - Yeah.
- Did you guys ever have an argument?
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431. - Yeah, yeah. You wanna…
- Yeah.
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432. Our first disagreement was in Mexico.
You know I talk a lot.
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433. When she is saying something,
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434. I have to learn to just receive it,
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435. instead of being raw and telling her,
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436. "These are my thoughts,"
'cause we're learning each other.
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437. - And you're committed to learning.
- Yes.
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438. - That's half the battle right there, so…
- Yeah.
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439. Yeah.
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440. - So, Tim.
- Yes, ma'am.
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443. I wouldn't say
a particular question.
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444. There was a lot of moments.
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445. I found myself in, like, a very soft place
where I felt very vulnerable.
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446. I've never cried so many times in my life.
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447. - Really?
- We cried a lot.
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448. - In the moment that we started…
- Oh, my God.
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449. Like, the moment that
for me was a big standout moment
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450. was when I was sharing a story
about one of my sisters.
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451. - And we ended up crying together.
- Aww.
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452. I have two sisters.
Both of them passed away.
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453. And I had never just,
like, cried with somebody.
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454. I always look at it through the lens of,
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455. "Who do I want next to me
on the worst day of my life?"
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456. And in every way,
up, down, left, and right,
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457. she is the person that
accepts that and understands
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458. that holistic part of me.
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459. That's good.
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460. - I know y'all hungry, so…
- Yeah, very.
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461. - Um, you wanna make the plates?
- Yeah, okay. Are they over here?
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462. - Yeah, yeah, yeah.
- So I made four steaks.
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463. - And I got chicken wings for y'all.
- Okay.
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464. Cool, cool.
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465. - Those look really good, man.
- Thank you.
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466. - Sir, does that steak look good for you?
- Yes, sir.
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467. - Thank you.
- Of course. Of course.
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468. Waters.
We have lemonade, sweet tea.
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469. Lemonade, please.
Copy !req
470. - So, Tim, if you don't mind me asking.
- Of course.
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471. - How long did you stay in the Navy?
- Almost eight years. I enjoyed it.
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472. Joining was the best decision of my life,
and getting out was the second best.
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473. I'm glad I'm out, but I don't regret it.
Like, it set me up for so much.
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474. I learned so much.
I saw so much. I did so much.
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475. He's literally been everywhere.
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476. And he asked me,
like, "Where have I been?"
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477. And I was like, "Well, one of my first
trips out of the country as a kid
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479. And he's like—
You've never been to Scotland, right?
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480. - Never been. I wanna go.
- Beautiful.
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481. - Yeah.
- Beautiful.
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482. - I'm a big golfer, so that's, like…
- Oh my God!
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483. Yeah, and I love golf and whiskey.
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484. - So, like, Scotland is…
- Yes!
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485. - St. Andrews!
- Yes, sir. Yes, sir.
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486. I was born in England too.
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487. - Oh, really?
- And so was he.
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488. Yeah, I think she told me that.
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489. - Another weird…
- That is such a coincidence.
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490. My dad was in the service
at the time, the Air Force.
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491. So I was born
at an Air Force base in England.
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492. - All right.
- That's how he got here too.
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493. Our grandfather was in the Air Force.
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494. So it was very, like, "What?"
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495. She tells me you wanted her
to be the next Tiger Woods
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496. when she was a kid, so…
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497. That's cool though
that you, like, share that same interest.
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498. - No, yeah.
- Yeah.
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499. - That's one thing that MS robbed of me.
- Mm-hmm.
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500. Yeah.
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501. 'Cause he really
would be out there all the time.
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502. - Yeah.
- Mm-hmm.
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503. So how do you guys
feel so far, meeting Tim?
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504. - Very nice.
- Yeah.
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505. Thank you.
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506. If you guys don't mind,
I did wanna talk to Mr. Byrd privately.
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507. - Would all you be okay taking Roddy out?
Sure.
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508. All right. BRB. See y'all later.
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509. Come on, Roddy.
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510. Mr. Byrd.
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511. When Alex and I met in the pods,
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512. there really was that,
like, deep connection.
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513. Before I even saw Alex, I knew Alex.
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514. And I decided that she's the person
that I want to make my wife.
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515. But I knew how important it was
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516. for me to have this conversation with you.
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517. So, that being said,
I read a letter to Alex in the pod,
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518. but it was addressed to you.
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519. So if you don't mind,
I'm gonna read that to you.
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520. So, "Mr. Byrd, first and foremost,
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521. I was raised to begin all things
with a grateful spirit, so thank you."
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522. "Thank you for bringing Alex
into this world."
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523. "Thank you for raising her
and understanding what love is."
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524. "I'm blessed that we were both
willing to bet on ourselves
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526. "You raised a kind, intelligent, driven
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527. and resilient daughter
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528. who became a place of warmth
and comfort and peace for me
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529. almost as soon as I heard her voice."
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530. "Before I make any promises to her,
I want to promise to you
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531. that I will treat her
with the amount of respect and dignity
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532. that I would treat
one of my own parents' daughters,
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533. which soon I hope to make her one of."
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534. "With the ultimate amount of respect
and love in my heart,
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535. I would like to kindly ask
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536. for Alex's hand in marriage
for a lifetime."
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537. Well,
I'm gonna gather my thoughts.
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538. She's my baby girl.
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539. Yes, sir.
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540. We just met.
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541. But I believe in you.
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542. And I believe what you have written,
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543. what you have said.
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544. I believe that came from your heart.
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545. Yes, sir.
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546. And…
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547. I accept you as my son.
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548. Thank you, sir.
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549. That means so much to me.
It really does.
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550. - Oh, yes.
- Yes, sir.
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551. You have my blessing.
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552. Thank you, sir.
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553. That means a lot. It really does.
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554. I welcome you to our family.
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555. Thank you.
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556. Can't wait.
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557. Please, go and give them the good news.
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558. Yes, sir.
Thank you, sir. I'll be right back.
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559. He said yes.
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560. Yeah!
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561. - Come back in. He wants to share.
- Okay, can someone help me up?
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562. Hey, Dad.
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563. Hi.
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564. I love you.
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565. I love you too.
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566. My new son-in-law.
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567. Oh, stop. I'm gonna cry.
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568. I was happy to accept him into our family.
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569. And I wish them nothing but the best.
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570. Where's my son?
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571. Meet your brother.
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572. - How's it going?
- Good to meet you again. Thank you.
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573. Brother-in-law. That feels good.
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574. - Right?
- You know?
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575. I have no concerns about Tim.
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576. Tim seems like a really good person,
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577. and so far,
the way they interact, love it.
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578. Love is like
they've known each other for a long time.
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579. - All right now.
- Okay.
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580. He got you.
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581. That's my baby girl,
so I just want the best.
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582. How long have you been here?
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583. I've been in this space
for about six months now.
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584. Yeah?
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585. And it's kind of just been,
like, the place that
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586. I've been, like, bouncing around
to different cities, then I come back…
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587. - The bougie.
- Corporate girly lifestyle.
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588. - Right before this?
- Yes.
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589. So, now, this is like the main house
where my best friend lives.
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590. And then I have,
like, the basement apartment unit.
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591. Are you ready to go down
into my little English basement?
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592. - Do you want me to lead?
- I got it.
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593. Help me grab my mail.
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594. Jury duty.
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595. Late notice.
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596. Mail order men.
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597. Give me my mail.
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598. Ooh, I like this rug.
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599. I'm not even gonna look up yet.
I kind of wanna like…
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600. Okay, well, we have a fake fig. Not okay.
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601. Kitchen.
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602. "Proceed as
if success is inevitable."
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603. We have nothing in here.
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604. Just a bunch of beer.
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605. - Okay, there's some protein shakes.
- What am I looking at here?
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606. We have one thing of white wine.
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607. Protein shakes and beer.
Like, what are we doing here?
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608. And the one thing of white wine
for the occasional girl you bring over.
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609. This is a bachelor dude's fridge.
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610. What is this place?
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611. Here we go.
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612. This is where you're gonna stay.
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613. Wait a second.
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614. It's for the Bible studies
that I host out here every night.
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615. I'm speechless. Jeez Louise.
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616. And this is my room.
I've been living minimally.
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617. - That's why there's the label.
- I forgot I had labels.
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618. Blazers and work clothes.
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619. - Some more hotel things I stole.
- Like I'm about to marry a felon.
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620. - I like this place.
- Thank you.
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621. Let's go to the couch.
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622. We should talk about, like,
how we wanna live after this.
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623. I think it makes a lot of sense just to,
you move with me in Fredericksburg,
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624. figure out what
we wanna do from there, but…
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625. we should talk about that.
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626. You've never
not lived in Fredericksburg, right?
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627. Other than college and this past summer
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628. when I lived at Virginia Beach
for the summer, no.
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629. San Diego was always,
like, a place that I wanted to.
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630. Like, I'm so excited
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631. that I got to see your family and your
family's home, but I love San Diego.
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632. It's, like, where I wanna raise my family.
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633. It's somewhere that is really easy for me.
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634. I'm excited for us to maybe
just go spend some time there.
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635. Yeah.
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636. And get more of a feel for it before,
like, you completely commit to it.
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637. - So I feel better about it.
- So you feel better about it? Yeah. Um…
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638. I like California a lot.
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639. It's just far from the family.
That's the tough part.
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640. When we talked about it in the pods,
I was like, "Yeah, I'm open to it."
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641. And then, like, as okay,
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642. now you and I got engaged,
and I started to think about,
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643. "This is now something very serious."
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644. "Okay, how do I feel about it?"
And I've sat with it for quite a while.
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645. You know, like, it's…
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646. I've made it clear that, like,
I care a lot about my parents,
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647. and I care a lot about the experiences
that they have in life too.
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648. And I know that they would love to see me
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649. with someone that I love
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650. and to have kids.
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651. And naturally,
they wanna be a part of that.
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652. So hearing that I'm, like, considering
moving to San Diego for this woman
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653. is, like, not exciting for them.
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654. Yeah.
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655. And therefore it's not exciting for me
from that perspective.
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656. It's exciting for me because this is
what I want in life is to be with you.
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657. So I'm very much, like, open to it
Copy !req
658. and excited to talk to you about it
and to potentially do it.
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659. Out of the pods,
Copy !req
660. it seemed like moving to San Diego
was something that you were excited about.
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661. Mm-hmm.
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662. And so, like, it is a bit of a surprise
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663. to hear, like,
how much of a concession it is.
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664. Mm-hmm.
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665. And I wanna make sure that that concession
Copy !req
666. is something that's,
like, very much, like, appreciated
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667. and, like, worthwhile.
Copy !req
668. And, like, I wanna make sure
that your family
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669. feels like they're a part of our family.
Copy !req
670. And I think we can be intentional
about when we raise a family
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671. or just ourselves coming back here.
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672. Yeah.
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673. Still for work, luckily it's remote.
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674. But because I do federal affairs,
like, I have to come to DC for stuff.
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675. And so it's never gonna be like we're
gonna go to San Diego and then disappear.
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676. I want my kids to also have that,
like, loving grandparent relationship.
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677. Um, not just once a year.
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678. Come Christmas, like,
here's Grandma and Grandpa.
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679. They're like, "Who are these people?"
I don't want that.
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680. - No.
- I don't want that for my kids.
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681. My dad's gonna whip 'em in a frenzy.
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682. And then send them home, for sure.
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683. Perfect. Perfect.
I'm really excited to meet them, honestly.
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684. They're gonna be
my kids' grandparents, you know.
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685. It's not just my parents.
Like, I have a huge family in San Diego.
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686. And so, like, I'm so excited for you
Copy !req
687. to, like, eventually get
to meet all of them.
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688. I think, like I said, once I see all that,
I think it'll make more sense for me.
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689. - Yeah.
- So feeling much better about it for sure.
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690. Like, I think that this is definitely,
you know, after sitting on it and saying,
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691. "I'm open to it, sure,
but am I willing to actually do it?"
Copy !req
692. I can definitely say that,
like, I'm not only willing to.
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693. Like, I'm excited about it.
Copy !req
694. I think you're gonna like it.
Copy !req
695. - So you're excited?
- Elated.
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696. I feel extremely vulnerable right now
because I'm leaning in so hard to you.
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697. And, like, I'm very sold on you.
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698. And it's scary to do that.
Copy !req
699. - You are amazing.
- You are too.
Copy !req
700. You are absolutely perfect for me,
and we're perfect for each other.
Copy !req
701. If you change your mind
or you feel differently,
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702. I'll end up looking like a fool.
I'll be crushed.
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703. It's worth it,
because if I don't fully lean in, like,
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704. I could lose you that way.
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705. And I'd much rather
just, like, take the risk here.
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706. Yeah, sometimes
I'm just really worried that
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707. you'll just change your mind.
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708. But I'm just really excited
to do life with you.
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709. - I love you, babe.
- I love you too.
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710. This shit's wild.
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711. - It is crazy.
- Mm-hmm.
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712. It's very crazy.
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713. - There was a possibility, for sure.
Coming back to, like…
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714. - Unemployment. Yeah.
Not having a job. Yeah.
Copy !req
715. I really did have a feeling.
Copy !req
716. That's why the first thing I asked
when I got on-site. I saw my foreman.
Copy !req
717. I was like, "Do I still have a job?"
Copy !req
718. And he was like,
"No, like, you didn't hear?"
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719. Does suck, but I'm not stressing about it.
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720. You're handling it very well.
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721. You know, it'd be nice to be employed.
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722. But the longest you've ever, like,
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723. had to be in this position,
you said it's like a week and a half.
Copy !req
724. A week and a half, yeah.
End of the day, I can't control it.
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725. - Totally. Keep me posted.
- So…
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726. - I will.
- I got your back.
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727. I'll be your sugar mama, your baby mama.
Copy !req
728. Thank you for that, by the way.
I know that's a hard thing
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729. that I will never ask.
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730. So thank you.
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731. I got you.
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732. I mean, I am perfectly okay
Copy !req
733. with you treating me
like a piece of meat. I think it's hot.
Copy !req
734. I really do.
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735. You know, if I come in,
and you're just like, "Drop 'em,"
Copy !req
736. I'm like, "Fuckin' let's go."
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737. - I have a— I'm not—
- "Yes, ma'am."
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738. - Yeah.
- No, no, but I'm saying, like, if you did…
Copy !req
739. - We've had great sex.
- Yeah.
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740. No, we have, for sure.
Copy !req
741. Sex is amazing.
Copy !req
742. But then when you started, like,
having concerns about the wedding…
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743. Mm-hmm.
Copy !req
744. …it makes me be like,
"Well, I'm not just gonna, like,
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745. bend over for my fiancé, who's now…"
Copy !req
746. - You're right.
- "…not sure he wants to get married."
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747. That's why we haven't had it,
or else I, like, would have done it.
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748. I'm a man.
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749. You know, the wind blows
in the right direction,
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750. and I'm like, "Fuck!"
Copy !req
751. Women are a lot more complicated.
Copy !req
752. - I don't know if it's that complicated.
- It is.
Copy !req
753. The difference is every woman
has a different combination.
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754. But most women
don't know their own combinations.
Copy !req
755. - I know mine.
- So they can't tell you what they are.
Copy !req
756. Then you just
kind of have to figure 'em out.
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757. Luckily, you're with a modern-day woman
who will tell you.
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758. Talk to me. "Hey, little less of that,
little more of these."
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759. A little less butt stabs.
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760. Yeah, yeah.
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761. Accident.
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762. I mean, you're into butt stuff.
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763. Like pegging?
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764. I mean, it's cool.
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765. But it's not like, "I wait until
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766. my birthday to be lucky enough
to have it" type situation, you know?
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767. - Yeah.
- I'm saving my butt for my husband.
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768. That's fair.
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769. I mean, let's be honest.
Copy !req
770. There's so many different things
you could put your dick inside.
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771. Pineapple, bowl of macaroni and cheese.
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772. - Bowl of macaroni and cheese?
- Yeah.
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773. - Have you ever done that?
- No.
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774. I don't believe you.
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775. I think that the best sex.
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776. This is why it's so good with you.
Good for a lot of reasons.
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777. But, like, someone who's just,
like, obsessed with your vagina?
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778. I mean, that's what
the main focus is, right?
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779. Is, like, the vagina.
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780. Sure, yeah, I'll take it.
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781. No, let's be honest.
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782. If I had a vagina—
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783. Could you imagine being the first man
with a legitimate vagina?
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784. I'd be able to compare now the difference
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785. between getting kicked in the nuts
and giving birth.
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786. Okay.
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787. Giving birth is the only time
a woman comes close
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788. to understanding what it's like
when a man has a common cold, okay?
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789. Are you well?
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790. Are you okay?
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791. God, I could win a Nobel Prize
if I had a vagina.
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792. This was so fun two minutes ago.
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793. I'm not—
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794. - Like, I don't need sex, you know?
- Yeah.
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795. If you don't want to,
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796. I don't wanna make you feel forced
in that degree in any way.
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797. - You would never do that.
- Yeah.
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798. You, like, let me take the lead.
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799. I just have to feel
very safe in this relationship because…
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800. I get it. Yeah.
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801. You should be taking the lead
in that department.
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802. You know, maybe not necessarily
in the sense of, like,
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803. what people's kinks are into
and, like, sub-dom shit,
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804. but that's a completely different topic.
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805. But as far as feeling comfortable
and vulnerable and ready,
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806. yeah, like, take the lead.
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807. So, anyway, how about anal, huh? No…
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808. Jesus.
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809. It's gross in here.
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810. You look nice.
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811. Thank you.
You look nice too.
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812. It's gross in here.
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813. My shirt's smelly.
I'm gonna change shirts real quick.
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814. Okay. These floors get dirty fast.
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815. I literally sweeped yesterday,
and it's already gross.
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816. It already looks better.
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817. - I know.
- I feel more at home.
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818. - What, that I cleaned?
- Yeah.
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819. Thanks for doing that.
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820. - Yeah.
- See now we're matching. You like it?
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821. So you changed your dress clothes
to dress clothes?
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822. Same style, just different color.
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823. - Are you going back out?
- Just work. I'm gonna work, you know.
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824. - Zoom?
- Maybe.
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825. I'm asking 'cause you dressed up.
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826. Yeah.
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827. Got two new buyer clients today
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828. that I have to talk to
and connect with my lenders.
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829. - Will you take this out? Please.
- Yep.
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830. - I've taken the trash out.
- You took it out this morning?
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831. Oh, you're taking the trash out now,
'cause I asked. 'Cause I asked, Nick.
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832. Hmm.
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833. It's nice that if I tell you, "Hey, Nick,
will you take the trash out?" You do.
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834. Or like, "Nick, will you get
the stuff out of the dryer?" You will.
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835. But I feel like
you should be able to do that.
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836. I don't wanna have to tell you every time.
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837. - I do take out the trash.
- Yeah, you do.
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838. But I feel like today
and yesterday I had to ask.
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839. For us and our relationship,
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840. I think it would be nice to have,
like, things you do and things that I do.
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841. Yeah, I'm open to that.
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842. With trash, trash will be you.
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843. - You take the trash out.
- Cool.
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844. Cool. Laundry, when you do laundry,
you do my laundry.
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845. And then with Luna, like, she is my dog.
She's my responsibility.
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846. I get that. But now that we're married,
your responsibilities are mine,
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847. and my responsibilities are yours.
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848. - Yeah.
- How often do you vacuum, sweep?
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849. Like, once every two weeks.
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850. You vacuum once every two weeks, Nick?
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851. Well, it's just downstairs.
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852. But I mean, you've been down there.
I keep it very clean.
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853. I vacuum every single day.
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854. Do you think it's partly because of Luna?
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855. Well, Luna doesn't even shed.
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856. - Why do you vacuum every day?
- Because it gets gross.
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857. My expectations are I vacuum
every single day. I sweep every day.
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858. I dust once a week.
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859. Sundays are when I deep clean,
where I scrub the walls, the baseboards.
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860. I wash my sheets.
I do laundry I didn't catch up on.
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861. I clean out my fridge every two weeks.
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862. If you're out getting groceries,
then just text me and ask me what I need.
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863. If I'm out doing groceries,
text me what you need.
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864. If I do the once-a-week grocery shop
where I'm spending $300 or something,
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865. I think we could split that.
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866. I don't think groceries
will ever be that much.
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867. I've probably spent
$300 on groceries a week.
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868. Groceries are expensive.
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869. - Financially, right?
- Yeah.
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870. - You don't wanna join our account?
- We could play it by ear.
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871. - For now.
- Not a "play it by ear" person.
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872. 'Cause, like, when we get married,
if you're $50,000 in debt,
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873. or if I'm $50,000 in debt,
your debt becomes my debt, right?
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874. - Yeah.
- And my debt becomes your debt.
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875. Finances are a very important part
in a relationship.
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876. It's a good thing
I don't have any debt or student loans.
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877. I do have student loans.
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878. - You're not gonna pay them.
- Right.
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879. But I mean,
let's say something happened, like…
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880. - Yeah, I accept that.
- It's a big deal, right?
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881. We'll keep separate bank accounts.
Maybe when we have kids, we can join them.
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882. Or maybe we can have a separate
joint account for savings, our travels.
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883. Or for our home.
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884. We'll split all utilities.
We'll split rent.
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885. - Yep.
- Who's paying the bills?
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886. - Are you paying the bills or am I?
- What do you think?
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887. I think I'm financially
more literate you are.
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888. There's nothing wrong with this.
The only bill you have is just your car.
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889. Didn't even know you had insurance.
Your parents are paying.
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890. So this is my question to you.
Are you going to join my car insurance?
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891. Are we gonna pay that together?
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892. Are you going to continue to stay
on your parents' car insurance?
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893. What would be the benefit of joining,
being together on car insurance?
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894. That you're paying your own bills.
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895. I'm asking, when we get married,
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896. are your parents still gonna be paying
bills, or are you joining them with me?
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897. I would join them with you.
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898. Your parents pay your phone bill.
What's your plan with that?
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899. I mean, eventually,
like, in the next year or two,
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900. I'll probably start paying for it.
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901. But as long as they wanna pay
for my phone bill, I'm cool with it.
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902. - I'll keep my phone bill for me?
- Yeah.
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903. - Why are you looking at me like that?
- Because you're 28 years old.
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904. I've been on my own since I'm 18,
so I've had to pay all the bills, right?
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905. I pay my car insurance.
I pay my health insurance.
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906. Then I contribute to my 401.
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907. Then I contribute to my stocks.
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908. - I don't know shit about stocks.
- Right.
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909. If you ever want to invest, let me know,
and I can invest your money in stocks.
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910. Stocks?
I could give a fuck about stocks.
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911. - I can teach you.
- Do you know about sports?
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912. - No, but money, sports, you know?
- Okay, well, there you go.
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913. Yeah, we'll see about that.
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914. Does watching sports
make you more financially successful?
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915. I don't think stocks does.
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916. What are stocks?
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917. Can't you lose money
from putting money in stocks?
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918. When you're investing, you can be
really risky, but you don't have to.
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919. You just put a bit of money
in different stocks.
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920. Me, financially, I'm not stupid,
and I don't have enough money
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921. to be high-risk, high-reward,
so I'm low-risk, low-reward.
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922. Like, is your 401,
is that intertwined with stocks?
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923. I don't know anything.
I mean, I just never invested in stocks.
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924. I think, like, a bad habit that I have is
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925. I like things the way I like things,
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926. and everyone else just
can't do it as good as me,
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927. which I know is wrong, because people
do their thing that they wanna do.
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928. You do dishes a certain way,
or you do the bed a certain way.
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929. And that's okay.
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930. Maybe it's not the way I like it,
but it's different.
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931. I think we're both very ambitious people.
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932. I think we're both, like, clean,
which is important.
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933. You have a good
and kind heart, and so do I.
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934. It feels like we're best friends.
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935. I've accepted you
for who you are,
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936. but I'm getting used
to it a little bit more.
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937. I'm a very good listener.
Like, I'm always going to hear you out.
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938. I know sometimes you don't think it,
but I would protect you.
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939. I will.
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940. Hi!
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941. I haven't seen you in forever.
For a month. Over a month.
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942. - This is Tyler.
What's going on, sir? How are you?
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943. - Pleasure to meet you.
Same, same.
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944. - Got you a gift, man.
Wow.
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945. - Let me guess. 1738.
- Just a little something. Yes, I told him.
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946. That's a good start.
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947. - What's going on?
- So…
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948. - This is my one and only daughter.
- Yep.
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949. And from what she have described to me,
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950. you make her happy.
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951. What made you think
she was the one for you?
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952. She made me feel,
like, safe and protected,
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953. like, my emotions were safe.
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954. Like, I'm able to open up to her.
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955. - We talked about everything.
- Okay.
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956. Like, the deepest things that I've never
opened up with people before about.
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957. I was able to be free and be vulnerable,
where I couldn't growing up.
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958. It was like,
"You're a man. Be tough, don't cry."
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959. Then I get in this position
where I'm able to cry.
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960. She's like, "I love that for you."
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961. - Where'd you grow up?
- Pittsburgh.
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962. - Pittsburgh. Okay.
- Yep.
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963. She was allowing me to just be myself
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964. and tell her, like, about my family,
how I grew up
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965. and, like, how rough it was.
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966. And she just accepted me for everything.
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967. - Like, she's so genuine and so honest.
- Uh-huh.
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968. I'm not saying it
'cause she's my daughter,
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969. but that's the total package.
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970. - Yes, yes.
- The brains, you know, everything.
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971. - That's why I say she's strong.
- Ride or die.
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972. - Yeah, genuine.
- Ride or die. She's gonna ride.
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973. - Yeah.
- She's not gonna quit on you.
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974. Nah. I'm riding.
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975. - You sure?
- 100%.
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976. So what do you wanna do in life?
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977. Like, business-wise, work?
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978. So right now, I do,
like, security specialist.
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979. So it's a bunch of computer work.
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980. - Reviewing procedures.
- You're pretty smart.
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981. Nah, I'm all right, you know.
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982. - How old are you?
- I'm 34.
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983. I was gonna say 33,
but the day I proposed, I turned 34.
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984. - Gotcha. That's a strong word, propose.
- Yeah.
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985. - Are you serious? Are you ready?
- Oh, I'm very ready. 100%.
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986. As a man, how can you protect her?
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987. 'Cause I'm turning her over to you.
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988. Yes, of course. I'm not a cheater.
I'm not gonna lie to her.
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989. - Okay.
- I'm sharing everything with her.
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990. - Her emotions are protected 100%.
- Okay.
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991. Well, here's a big question then.
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992. How do you feel about family, kids?
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993. - Big family. I come from a small family.
- Are you ready for that?
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994. Oh, yeah, more than ready.
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995. You sure?
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996. Yeah, I'm sure. Trust me.
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997. He wants grandbabies.
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998. So you'll be living
not just for you no more.
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999. - For my family, yeah, yeah.
- For a legacy.
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1000. - I don't wanna sound biased.
- No, yeah.
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1001. I've not asked you your question.
What is it about him that you like?
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1002. He just made me feel safe enough
to feel like I could be soft.
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1003. That was the first thing.
And then after that,
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1004. just, like, the little things
he does in, like, the real world
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1005. when we actually hung out
Just, like, how protective he is.
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1006. He don't let me grab nothing.
I'm like, "I got this." He's like, "No."
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1007. - Don't touch that door.
- No door, no nothing.
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1008. You know, and it's so unfamiliar
in our dating era
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1009. for our generation to be that way.
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1010. And, yeah,
just the way that you love me is like
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1011. something that I didn't have
in my past relationships, um, ever.
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1012. I don't take it lightly when I say
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1013. she's my one and only daughter.
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1014. I love her to death.
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1015. Yeah.
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1016. So this is serious to me.
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1017. She should go away for a minute.
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1018. - Right.
- So we can talk like men for a minute.
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1019. - You want a second?
- Yeah.
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1020. - I'll give you a second.
- Cool.
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1021. - I do have a big question.
- Mm-hmm.
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1022. I love Ashley.
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1023. I really mean, like, truly.
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1024. - I thought I knew love. I had no clue.
- Mm-hmm.
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1025. And nothing I feel like
is gonna tear us apart.
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1026. So I've already asked her,
um, because I proposed.
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1027. But can I have
your daughter's hand in marriage?
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1028. Absolutely.
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1029. - Absolutely. The reason why?
- Appreciate it.
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1030. She accepted you.
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1031. Yeah.
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1032. I want the best for her.
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1033. I want her to be happy.
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1034. And she does not make decisions lightly.
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1035. Yeah.
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1036. Like, zero.
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1037. Yeah.
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1038. I've spoken to you.
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1039. I'm reading you,
and I'm looking at you as a man.
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1040. And beyond what you have said,
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1041. you have a lot of potential.
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1042. - Yeah.
- I see it in you.
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1043. Become a better man that you want to be.
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1044. You know, 'cause the better you are…
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1045. The better she is. We all are. Yeah.
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1046. - So I have a vested interest…
- Yep.
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1047. …to make sure you don't only succeed,
but you excel.
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1048. Yeah.
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1049. Who am I to judge
what makes my daughter happy?
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1050. Who am I to tell her
how she's supposed to feel?
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1051. She feels good.
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1052. She's happy. I'm happy.
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1053. If Ashley starts talking
a little bit differently besides this,
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1054. then Daddy's gonna kick
into motion.
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1055. Until then, Daddy's gonna fall back.
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1056. - You know, we're talking about you.
- Oh.
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1057. So you've got my blessing.
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1058. I appreciate that.
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1059. And— God, I'm gonna get emotional.
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1060. Oh, my gosh. This is crazy.
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1061. Oh.
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1062. Mm.
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1063. What the hell?
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1064. - Give me a second. Sorry.
- Yeah, take your time.
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1065. So, it's a journey.
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1066. Yeah, I'm in.
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1067. I'm in the back seat.
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1068. So y'all got my blessing,
but this is my only daughter.
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1069. Yeah.
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1070. - Don't play.
- Nah. I'mma take care of her.
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1071. Yeah, I look forward to the future.
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1072. Same.
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1073. I'm shocked right now.
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1074. I'm just so sorry.
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1075. I just cannot believe it.
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1076. Have you met his family?
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1077. I was supposed to on Sunday.
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1078. I did find it really weird in Mexico.
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1079. We're at, like, the party,
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1080. and, like, he said to me,
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1081. "You know, in a year,
when a bunch of women
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1082. are, like, in my DMs wanting
to suck my dick…"
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1083. - And I was like, "Why would you say that?"
- It's disgusting.
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1084. He went and did a sleep test last night.
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1085. Did he do a sleep test last night?
I don't know.
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1086. He didn't sleep here.
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1087. It's really unbelievable.
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1088. I'm just so sorry.
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1089. You don't deserve that.
You really don't.
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1090. I can't believe someone would say that
and then do that to you.
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1091. - And, like—
- I'm so sorry. It's disgusting.
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1092. It's fucking evil.
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1093. - I'll text you when I'm done.
And I'll come.
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1094. Thank you.
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1095. Reading those text messages
filled with fetishes and coming.
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1096. - Like, it's disgusting, Stephen.
- You're right.
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1097. No, you're right.
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1098. Stop acting! Like, "You're right."
I know I'm right.
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1099. Say something else.
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1100. Why did you do this? Why did you propose?
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1101. Why did you come here? Like, who are you?
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1102. - Were you at a sleep test last night?
- Yeah.
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1103. - Really?
- Yeah.
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1104. Well… I don't know if I believe that.
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1105. At this point, um,
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1106. I don't think there's anything
I could say that you would believe.
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1107. Is there something that I should believe?
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1108. Monica,
I didn't pretend anything.
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1109. Yes, you did.
You pretended to want to get married.
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1110. I wasn't pretending.
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1111. I did make a completely stupid mistake
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1112. while being drunk at a sleep test
with somebody who texted me.
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1113. You were doing it today, Stephen.
You texted her today.
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1114. And the really gross ones were today.
So don't fucking lie to my face.
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1115. - Were you guys texting today?
- No.
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1116. - You weren't? Let me see your phone.
- I deleted the message.
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1117. - Of course you did.
- I didn't wanna look at it either.
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1118. They started yesterday,
and they went through today.
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1119. Uh…
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1120. I honestly don't remember
texting her today,
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1121. because I knew what I was doing and if…
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1122. You didn't know
what you were doing last night?
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1123. I did know what I was doing last night,
and I know it was a stupid decision,
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1124. and it was coupled with the conversation
that we had had last night—
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1125. Don't you fucking blame me
at all for you being gross.
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1126. I'm blaming my actions on myself
based on how I took our conversation.
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1127. I am taking full responsibility for this.
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1128. - I'm getting my stuff, leaving you alone.
- Great.
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1129. Before you leave,
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1130. I would like you to Venmo me
the money you owe me
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1131. for me carrying your weight
the last couple days.
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1132. If you wouldn't mind taking out
your phone now to send me the Venmo.
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1133. There we go.
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1134. I'm almost embarrassed
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1135. about how much of my,
like, heart I've given you.
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1136. You were gonna, like, what,
shake my dad's hand this weekend?
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1137. While you were planning on cheating?
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1138. - Like, I don't— I don't understand.
- I wasn't…
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1139. Sorry.
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1140. Ugh! You were,
like, laying in a sleep test bed
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1141. texting a girl
while you are engaged that you want to…
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1142. - Yeah, it's—
- …do dirty kinks.
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1143. - It was disgusting.
- You're right.
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1144. I can't do anything to change this.
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1145. I will live with this.
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1146. Great.
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1147. I truly am sorry for hurting you,
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1148. for wasting your time,
for coming on the show and…
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1149. doing this to you.
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1150. I shouldn't have come on the show.
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1151. What a selfish thing to say.
What a selfish piece of shit.
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1152. You fucking put a ring on my finger,
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1153. and now you shouldn't
have been on the show?
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1154. I'm like—
It's just, like, taking that away from me…
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1155. Yeah, I definitely don't…
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1156. I definitely don't. I definitely…
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1157. I definitely don't deserve much.
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1158. I am sorry.
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1159. I will leave you alone now.
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1160. Um…
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1161. Yeah, okay.
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1162. Hey.
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1163. How'd it go?
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1164. I'm so sad.
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1165. I'm so sorry, Monica.
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1166. Thank you so much.
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1167. I can't believe this is happening.
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