1. Bronwyn? You here?
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3. Why is he still here?
Where's Sylvia?
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4. I don't know.
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5. Been trying
to reach her all morning.
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6. - Has he eaten?
- Uh, I ordered us some coffees
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7. from Balthazar
and I got him an eggs Benedict.
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8. - He wouldn't touch it.
- All right.
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9. - Hmm.
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10. Hey, Bash? Bud?
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11. Hey, can you, um,
can you try the bread?
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12. I don't like that.
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13. - Why not?
- It's bland.
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14. What— Do you want me to put
something on it for you?
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15. Spicy curry mango?
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16. What?
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17. - Yeah? Okay.
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18. Keep eating, please.
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19. Mm.
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20. Oh, my God.
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21. Oh. How is that "slight pepper"?
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22. - Could you take him?
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23. I have to help Simon prep
a presentation before 9:00.
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24. I— No, I... Oh, shit,
that stuff is really spicy.
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25. Oh, my God.
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26. - Fine. I already missed yoga.
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27. Mm.
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28. Hello?
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29. - Hey, Bash.
- Yes?
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30. I'll take you to school today.
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32. Uh-huh.
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33. Uh-huh.
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34. Uh-huh.
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35. Eat, Bash.
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36. Uh-huh.
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37. - Of course.
- What is it?
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38. Of course.
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39. - Sylvia died.
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40. W-What, what happened? How?
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will pick you up.
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48. I know, honey.
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49. Are you sad because you missed
your yoga class?
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50. Do you need an ocean breath?
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51. Oh, honey.
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53. Hugs.
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54. - Mommy?
- Yes, Bash?
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55. Sylvia walks me to my class.
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56. Oh. Okay.
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57. Hey, how was your day?
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58. Mm, it was okay.
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59. How was yours?
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60. - Fine, under the circumstances.
- Mm-hmm.
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61. You know, I gave
the doorman that envelope
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62. that was addressed to Sylvia.
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63. Told him return it to sender.
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64. He said he has no idea
who left it at our door.
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65. - Strange.
- It's weird, right?
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66. How's Sebastian doing?
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67. Good. Playing with that
coding thing you got him.
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68. Hey, you know,
his teacher asked me
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69. why we weren't at family
picture day, in front of him.
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70. What? I mean, we couldn't have
been the only parents.
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71. Right? I mean, seriously.
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72. It was ridiculous.
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73. So...
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74. how do you want to
tell Bash
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75. Yeah, yeah, I was thinking
about that, too. Um...
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77. Absolutely.
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to lie to him.
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79. She was a really big part
of his life.
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80. If we don't say anything,
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is a bad thing.
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82. Well, it isn't the best thing.
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83. What did Dr. Lipschitz say
about teachable moments?
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84. You remember?
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85. Yeah, okay, I'll see you soon.
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86. All right. Bye.
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87. Bye.
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88. - Hey, Bash.
- Hey.
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89. - Hey, hey, hey.
- Hey.
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90. - Hey, buddy.
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91. - What you playing?
- Wow.
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92. Look at this.
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94. That... This is a Kosmocertops.
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95. - Whoa. I love it.
- Wow.
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96. So cool.
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97. Hey, Bash.
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98. You remember that old dog
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99. - we used to have
when you were...
- Mm, no. Mm-mm, mm-mm.
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100. Well...
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101. you really love dinosaurs,
don't you, Bash?
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102. Uh, did you know
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104. - Yeah.
- ... like dinosaurs
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105. and woolly mammoths.
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106. Like, a meteor hit them?
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107. - Maybe.
- Mm-hmm.
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108. Yeah. Maybe.
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109. Or sometimes,
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111. and not wake up.
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112. Can that happen to me?
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113. - No. Mm-mm. No way.
- No. No.
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when you're really old.
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115. Can that happen to you?
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116. - No. No, no, no, no.
- No, no, no. No.
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117. But you're both old.
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118. Sylvia died.
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119. Can she come back
and say goodbye
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120. and then go back to being dead?
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121. I don't think so, Bash.
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122. But sometimes, when people die,
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to celebrate their life,
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124. and it's called a funeral.
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125. Can we go to there?
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126. - We can...
- Maybe. Maybe.
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127. Me and Daddy just need
to talk about it first.
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128. O-Okay?
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129. Maybe it's that foam roller?
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130. I'll check.
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131. - Mm-hmm.
- Where did she go?
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132. Oh...
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133. Nobody knows, baby.
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134. Maybe Sylvia went back
to Trinidad and Tobago.
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135. I just never realized
how many things
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137. I mean, bags...
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138. wigs, dresses.
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139. We'll contact her family.
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140. We should've hired
somebody younger.
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141. Yeah, you know, hon?
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142. I think we should take him.
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143. No, that— It is,
it is too jarring for a kid
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144. - in kindergarten.
- Okay, listen.
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145. I thought about it.
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146. I think this could be
a real teachable moment.
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147. I mean, he said
he wanted to see her.
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148. - I think we should
honor his wishes.
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149. You know, I was reading about
how we as Americans
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to the point
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151. where it's become this, like,
foreign, scary thing.
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152. I mean, it used to be
that the living room—
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153. the living room, in your house—
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154. used to be the death room.
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155. I mean, it's where you would
house the body
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156. of the dead person and people
would come and go for days
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157. just to, just to look
at-at the dead person.
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158. Ew.
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159. I'm gonna call her phone.
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160. Maybe we can return these things
to her family in person.
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161. I think her daughter said
the service starts at 10:00 a.m.
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162. I don't know.
It was hard to understand her.
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163. Maybe this next person
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165. metropolitan.
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166. Mm-hmm.
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167. Sounds expensive.
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168. Sylvia wasn't cheap.
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169. No. Sylvia wasn't expensive.
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170. Babe, you know
what would be so great?
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171. - Hmm?
- If Sebastian
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172. could become fluent in Mandarin.
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173. Look, you know how hard it is to
find a Chinese nanny right now.
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174. Why? No, you're just not asking
the right people.
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in business, he needs to learn
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178. I'm scared.
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Sebastian.
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180. I didn't, I didn't
see you, baby.
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181. Sylvia sits in my room
when I'm scared.
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183. In a circle.
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186. What?
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187. Oh, um, well,
I don't know that song.
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and we are all safe.
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195. Hmm. Practically in the islands.
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196. Hi, guys. Hi.
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197. Uh, we're looking
for Sylvia Hosannah's funeral.
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198. Is it... Is this it?
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199. - Are you Miles?
- I am.
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200. Yeah, we met on the phone.
I'm Khadija.
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201. - Sylvia's daughter.
- Oh, really nice to meet you.
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202. - Our condolences.
- Thank you so much.
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203. She was so much a part
of our son's life.
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204. - Oh, I know.
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from our apartment.
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207. - We want to make sure
we get those to you today.
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208. Oh, yeah.
Great, thank you so much.
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209. Cockroach.
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210. Richard. Stop it.
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211. Trust me, it's not
as bad as it sounds.
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212. "Cockroach has no place
at fowl party."
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213. A'A, and I bet you know
what that means.
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214. - You must be Sebastian.
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her little curry mouth
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about you, all of you.
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for the wake later, right?
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219. Yes, we is family now, and you
have to stay for the wake later.
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220. Right? And you'll have
plenty food.
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222. fish broth, doubles, roti.
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223. And as Mommy used to say,
it's better belly bust...
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224. than good food waste.
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225. - You know me heart.
- A'A.
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Trini all here?
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- Oh, my gosh.
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You made me laugh today.
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- That's great.
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231. - Can I pull...
- Oh, just follow me,
I'll show you where to park.
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232. - Oh, I'll take Sebastian out
and wait for you.
- Yeah. Yeah, yeah.
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like, get out of here?
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the car keys on the hood
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take care of you.
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238. - Oh, okay.
- Mm-hmm. Richie.
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- It's fine. It's fine.
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- Thank you. I'm good, thanks.
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so you can see, okay?
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247. Okay?
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248. Good job, buddy.
Let's go find a seat.
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249. Excuse me. Can we take these?
Thank you.
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250. - Thank you.
- You sit here.
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251. I'll sit next to you.
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252. Good job, bud.
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253. Hey, y'all must be the Warners.
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260. Oh.
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264. I'd like to offer my assistance.
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265. I-I've been
a Little League coach,
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267. and I install televisions
when I can.
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268. - Wow.
- Just hit my line.
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- Nice to meet you.
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to care for Sebastian.
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280. You know, Sylvia was
my babysitter, too. Ha.
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281. - Wow.
- Yeah, it's a sad day.
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282. - But she'd be happy
we're all here, you know.
- Yeah.
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285. No, it's Trinidad and Tobago.
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is so... strong.
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289. Yeah, everyone says that.
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290. Sorry I'm late.
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291. As they say,
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292. - Let the church say "amen."
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293. Amen.
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294. Welcome to the homegoing service
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Sylvia Lucille Hosannah.
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and close your eyes.
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to the brokenhearted...
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- ... and loves those
who are crushed in spirit."
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- That mean,
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- Yes, Lord.
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306. - Amen.
- Let the church say amen, amen?
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307. - Amen.
- Let me just say "amen."
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309. - Amen.
- We have
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- Born in Trinidad
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in the year 1957.
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by her beautiful children,
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her son Steven Lee Jr.
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Wesley and Zachary.
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childcare professional.
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- Yes.
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to many, many children
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loved children, eh?
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care of children, right?
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and having children of her own,
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with the Alvin Ailey
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for several years.
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and traditional African dance,
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and a freshness
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dance milieu.
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- Oh, yeah.
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family to move from Trinidad
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sent money to her family.
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all her brothers and sisters
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is doing his thing
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for the Patriots!
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some money, boy.
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related to our nanny?
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342. - Yeah, I heard.
- She will be
extremely missed.
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as he knows it to be true.
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- Yes.
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- Yes.
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sitting where?
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- At the right hand
of the Father.
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- What was that?
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her sweet, sweet soul.
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Mrs. Hosannah's wishes,
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in tradition...
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not at all traditional.
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be limbo dance,
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to the burial site.
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and alumni here
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started by Sylvia, by the way—
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this ask of Mrs. Hosannah.
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one of Sylvia's favorite songs,
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381. - There we go, now.
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Stop it!
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reach up there?
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- Everyone here
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- Princess!
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her selflessness,
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she sacrificed, hmm?
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of those children, hmm?
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she could, Princess.
- Yeah?
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when we needed her, Steven?
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jumped uptown,
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for a whole day?
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when they broke into our house
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at your finals, Steven?
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children.
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taking care of her own!
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Princess!
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really doing here?
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- A'A?
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There's a fight going down...
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to calm down right now!
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the white people.
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Are we scaring you?
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- Yes.
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of the limbo dance?
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- Did we do the right thing?
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that woman was yelling...
- All right, that...
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Sebastian to feel that way.
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when he needed us.
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448. We were there for him.
We are there for him.
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449. Look, I know Sebastian,
and I know
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450. that he can handle
what he saw today.
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451. I know he'll be fine.
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452. You know, when I was putting
Sebastian to bed tonight,
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453. I asked him, "What do you want
to be when you grow up?"
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454. and he said, "I want to play
steelpan like Uncle Samuel."
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455. I don't even...
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456. Honey, wha... U-Uncle Samuel?
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457. I don't know what that is.
Who's Uncle Samuel?
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458. - I don't know.
- Was he there today?
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459. I don't know.
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